I think that some women need to respect themselves as well.  Too many women use their sexuality to get their own way and trap men.

In my opinion if a woman wants to take her clothes off, sleep with a man or perform some sex act for vast amounts of money then why not?  If that's how they choose to earn a living then so be it.  As long it is their choice and not another persons.  I am sure that some of these women earn more in a week than I do in a year. 

Yes.

I'd be wary about legitimizing the argument about promiscuous clothing, because essentially it is only a conservative norm imposed by our culture, and I think it's something that we need to trascend. Think about it, if you see a naked girl playing on the beach, it's completely normal in our society (assuming she's fairly young), but if she's suddenly wearing a short skirt or whatever, she's inviting sexual thoughts? Not among most guys, I wager, but society tries to project that idea onto us (it would be very frowned upon to let the girl dress like that). These are the same type of norms that follow us through life. An example that isn't age specific is wearing a bikini at the beach, which is fine, but wearing it in the city? Not so much. Even replacing the bikini with regular underwear is a big no-no. Clothes don't objectify girls, ideas do.

I agree 100% - a lot of the high school girls I know are not dressing to impress boys.  A lot of times they are trying to find themselves and are expressing what they like.  One of the smartest, sweetest girls I know wears crazy hair, clothing, and jewelry but she is very artistic and I think she is dressing for herself - I don't think other people should be judging her just based on what she wears.  Most people are shocked when they find out how bright and thoughtful she is.  To be fair, I have known her since preschool (she was in my oldest son's class) but it amazes me how nasty people can be when she is just a differently dressed person.

I'd be wary about legitimizing the argument about promiscuous clothing, because essentially it is only a conservative norm imposed by our culture, and I think it's something that we need to trascend. Think about it. If you see a naked girl playing at the beach, it's completely normal in our society (assuming she's fairly young), but if she's suddenly wearing a short skirt or whatever, she's inviting sexual thoughts? Not among most guys, I wager, but society tries to project that idea onto us (it would be very frowned upon to let the girl dress like that). These are the same type of norms that follow us through life. An example that isn't age specific is wearing a bikini at the beach, which is fine, but wearing it in the city? Not so much. Even replacing the bikini with regular underwear is a big no-no. Clothes don't objectify girls, ideas do.

I'd be wary about legitimizing the argument about promiscuous clothing, because essentially it is only a conservative norm imposed by our culture, and I think it's something that we need to trascend. Think about it. If you see a naked girl playing at the beach, it's completely normal in our society (assuming she's fairly young), but if she's suddenly wearing a short skirt or whatever, she's inviting sexual thoughts? Not among most guys, I wager, but society tries to project that idea onto us (it would be very frowned upon to let the girl dress like that). These are the same type of norms that follow us through life. An example that isn't age specific is wearing a bikini at the beach, which is fine, but wearing it in the city? Not so much. Even replacing the bikini with regular underwear is a big no-no. Clothes don't objectify girls, ideas do.

While I agree that the sexualisation of women everywhere I look is disgusting, you can easily say the same for men. Look at all the cologne or hollister or whatever it is ads. When do you see anyone but someone who's got a six-pack and a great jaw line etc. in those?

Now this is not to say that male sexualisation is on the same level as female, because it is no where near the same level but making it out to be a female-only problem is definitely not the case.

Having said that, I think you have to blame the media. There's so much hype around how women dress, how smooth their skin is and their "perfect" make-up, it's hard not to be pressured into seeing women as nothing but sex objects. I mean I can't say I haven't had conversations with friends about girls "examining" women like nothing more then an object and I know it's wrong, but on the same note, I wouldn't take any of them seriously about it. To give you an example, last year we had a non-uniform say in school where we were allowed to come to school dressed in whatever clothes we want, out of the 106 girls in my yeargroup, only 3 didn't have leggings or a short-skirt barely covering the top half of their thighs and low-cut tops to show off their clevege. How can those women claim that men view them as nothing more then sex objects when they dress like that? They could have come in dressed in tracksuits or jeans, instead they chose clothes that objectify them and degrade them to nothing more then sex objects.

To conclude, I do not condone the viewing of women as sex objects, but at the same time, women should not blame us males solely and  quite frankly, dress appropriately.