smacking children is now officially illegal in New Zealand but it still happens. Newspapers still report regularly of children being abused by adults in various forms.
I was smacked/beaten as a child and to a certain degree it has made me a stronger person, not physically but emotionally. Clean police records at my age are not often seen - not even a traffic violation. In fact out of the 13 children raised by my solo parent mother (not all 13 are "blood children") there is not one of us that has been in trouble with the authorities. then again i was brought up in a generation that was taught to respect our elders. I think that emotional abuse is just as harmful, even more so as it has long lasting effects.
I freely admit to smacking my children on the backside - very rarely and only if they had done something that would endanger themselves or another person/child. Things like running out on the road etc. Two out of three children have grown into respectable adults that input into society in a constructive manner. The child that *went of the rails* has drug and alcohol addiction problems - was this because of a smack on the backside? that is a question I will continually ask myself.
Do i believe in beating a child senseless
NO I do believe that emotional abuse is longer lasting and more harmful. Most of the *bad* side of abuse is due to lack of support systems for parents that are under stress and lash out at the children - this does not make it right BUT unless intervention is made before escalation the needless suffering will continue.